Let’s start with a truth many people don’t say out loud: infertility is a wild, messy, confusing, and deeply lonely road. If you’re on it — or if you know someone who is — you know what I mean. It’s like being trapped in a never-ending loop of hope and heartbreak, where the medical jargon sounds like a foreign language, and the emotional toll feels unbearable.

And yet, despite all that, there’s an untold story beneath the surface — one of resilience, radical hope, and fierce self-love that most people don’t get to hear.

This is where InCircle Fertility steps in, changing the game for people navigating infertility in a way that feels human, creative, and profoundly empowering.

The Founder Who Didn’t Just Survive, But Created a Whole New Way Forward

Abbe Feder’s journey is not your typical success story. She’s not someone who stumbled into fertility coaching because it seemed like a good idea. She lived through six years of complicated fertility struggles — the kind that leave you drained, questioning everything, and desperate for a lifeline.

But instead of letting that journey define her with despair, Abbe channeled everything she learned into creating InCircle Fertility — a coaching practice and community designed to support people exactly like her: those caught in the emotional, physical, and logistical chaos of fertility challenges.

What makes Abbe’s approach so magnetic is that she knows this journey from the inside out. She’s walked the walk — the clinical breakdowns, the “another negative test” moments, the exhaustion of juggling medical decisions with your own emotional wellbeing.

So when Abbe coaches, it’s not from theory. It’s from a place of fierce empathy, radical honesty, and creative problem-solving that comes from lived experience.

What Fertility Coaching Should Feel Like — But Usually Doesn’t

If you’re reading this, maybe you’ve already encountered fertility coaching or considered it. The problem is, a lot of fertility support out there is dry, clinical, or just plain overwhelming. It piles on more “to-dos” when you’re already stretched thin.

But InCircle Fertility’s coaching feels different. Imagine sitting down with a friend who gets exactly what you’re going through — the complicated feelings, the jargon, the heartbreak — and who can also help you untangle your next steps with clarity and kindness.

Abbe’s coaching isn’t about ticking boxes or following a script. It’s about meeting you exactly where you are — whether you’re just starting to wonder about your fertility, stuck in the middle of IVF cycles, wrestling with donor decisions, or even stepping away from treatment altogether.

She helps you decode confusing medical information, weigh options without panic, and most importantly, regain control in a process that often feels like it’s running you.

The (IN)Fertility Cards of Love — When Art Meets Healing in the Most Unexpected Way

Now, let’s talk about something truly innovative — the (IN)Fertility Cards of Love. This isn’t just a deck of encouragement cards. It’s a revolutionary concept that flips the narrative of struggle and turns it into a symbol of resilience and beauty.

Each card features abstract art painted with sterile IVF needles — yes, those very needles that represent so much pain and anxiety for people going through fertility treatments.

Think about that transformation for a moment: what once was a tool of struggle is now a medium of expression, hope, and empowerment.

Partnering with artist Jamie Blicher (known as The Glitter Enthusiast), Abbe created these cards to bring radical empathy and visibility to the fertility journey in a way that words alone often can’t.

Holding or sending one of these cards says so much more than “I care.” It says, “I see your fight. I see your strength. And I’m with you.”

Why Community Matters — And Why InCircle Creates It Like No Other

Fertility struggles can make you feel like you’re walking through a silent storm. The world around you seems to carry on, while you’re stuck in a space filled with acronyms, tests, and emotions you can’t fully explain.

Abbe’s mission is to create a circle — a community where people can find connection, safety, and understanding that often doesn’t exist in clinics or traditional medical settings.

This happens in small group coaching sessions where real talk happens. It’s about sharing stories, swapping strategies, and holding space for the ups and downs — knowing you’re not just a case number, but a human being with hopes and fears.

And it doesn’t stop there. Through the Women’s Wellness with Abbe Feder podcast, she’s opening up candid, thoughtful conversations about reproductive health, motherhood, relationships, and womanhood — all through a fertility-informed lens.

What It Really Feels Like to Work With Abbe

Let’s strip away the fluff for a second.

Working with Abbe is like having a trusted guide, coach, and cheerleader all rolled into one — someone who is not afraid to sit with your pain but also fierce enough to help you find your power again.

Imagine those moments in the fertility clinic parking lot — overwhelmed, scared, maybe even crying — and having a coaching call that feels like a safe hug through the phone. No judgment, no pressure, just clarity and compassion.

That’s the kind of support InCircle Fertility offers.

What Makes InCircle Fertility So Innovative?

It’s not just the coaching, the cards, or the podcast alone. It’s how all of these elements work together to create a truly holistic, innovative fertility support ecosystem.

• The personalized coaching empowers clients to make informed decisions while managing the emotional rollercoaster.
• The (IN)Fertility Cards of Love provide a tangible, beautiful way to give and receive empathy.
• The community and group coaching build connection and collective strength.
• The podcast offers ongoing education and validation, normalizing conversations that are often kept in the dark.

It’s a fresh, multi-layered approach that meets people not just as patients, but as whole humans with complex needs.

How to Know If InCircle Fertility Is Right for You

Maybe you’re wondering, “Is coaching right for me? Can these cards really help? What if I’m not ready to talk about this with anyone?”

Here’s the thing: InCircle Fertility offers Support Sessions — no-pressure, welcoming calls that let you explore coaching in a way that feels safe and accessible.

You can dip your toes in, ask questions, and see if this kind of support fits where you’re at.

And if you’re not ready for coaching, the (IN)Fertility Cards of Love are a small but powerful way to start inviting hope, connection, and self-compassion into your life or the life of someone you love.

A Different Way Forward — Because You Deserve It

If you’ve ever whispered to yourself, “I didn’t think it would be this hard,” know that InCircle Fertility hears you. Abbe’s work is about honoring that truth while lighting a path forward — one filled with empathy, clarity, and the radical belief that your fertility journey doesn’t have to be walked in isolation.

The combination of lived experience, innovative artistry, and heartfelt coaching creates a space where hope isn’t just a word — it’s a real, tangible thing you can hold onto, day by day.

Let’s Wrap This Up with What Matters Most

Your fertility journey — no matter how complicated or heart-wrenching — is worthy of kindness, support, and radical understanding.

InCircle Fertility is more than a coaching practice. It’s a community, a movement, and a beacon for anyone tired of walking that road alone.

If you want to:

• Find a coach who truly gets your story
• Experience support that’s creative, innovative, and deeply personal
• Connect with others who understand your struggles without needing to explain everything
• Hold something beautiful and hopeful in your hands when words fail

Then InCircle Fertility is ready for you.